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Natasha's avatar

May I add, fall in love, truly and madly, with yourself. Listen to yourself, trust yourself and praise yourself like there’s no tomorrow. I’m allowed to give this advice. I’m 50:)

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Lucia Hawley's avatar

That's beautiful. I can resonate with this - how can you be expected to give love to others without loving yourself first.

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Melanie's avatar

Really enjoyed and needed this read Lucia. Wishing your sister well in her exams, and all of us a very authentically weird life doing what we do best. - Mel V

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Joyce Billington's avatar

Love this Lucia. The pearls of wisdom from your friends are absolutely spot on, “never date a guy with 2 first names” is a classic. I hope your sister and others can see the value in these experiences. I guess it’s a journey everyone navigates and as you have shown, requires self reflection and learning.

In some ways I still see in you, albeit from afar, many of the attributes you displayed in high school; your sense of humour and fun, ethical approach and deep integrity as well as a maturity beyond your years. Above all, what you give unwaveringly as a friend and person shows your strong values of respect, kindness and empathy. This blog encapsulates all that!! Loved reading it.

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Lucia Hawley's avatar

Joyce, that is so so sweet. Alex and I navigated many of these years together (and still are)! It's definitely a period filled with many ups and downs but being able to learn and reflect from it sets us up for life. Hope you are well!

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